After restful night’s sleep, with sounds of raging river blocking other forest sounds in the new campsite; we were ready to head back to the civilization. The third day of the hike presented its own unique challenges. Both pair of socks which I brought were wet and I had to walk sockless. On top of that in one of the streams crossing my shoes got completely wet (yet again). Which meant after couple of miles my feet started blistering and shoes started cutting into back of my ankle. But there is no benefit in dwelling on a problem which we can’t solve. We trudged along and started day dreaming about what we are going to eat once back in the civilization. Eventually, after another 6 hours of hiking, we hit the parking lot. Getting rid of our shoes and back to flip flops allowing our stinky and wet feet to breath was both a blessing and a curse.
Messed up
Sunday, June 06, 2021
Walk in a Temperate Rain Forest
After restful night’s sleep, with sounds of raging river blocking other forest sounds in the new campsite; we were ready to head back to the civilization. The third day of the hike presented its own unique challenges. Both pair of socks which I brought were wet and I had to walk sockless. On top of that in one of the streams crossing my shoes got completely wet (yet again). Which meant after couple of miles my feet started blistering and shoes started cutting into back of my ankle. But there is no benefit in dwelling on a problem which we can’t solve. We trudged along and started day dreaming about what we are going to eat once back in the civilization. Eventually, after another 6 hours of hiking, we hit the parking lot. Getting rid of our shoes and back to flip flops allowing our stinky and wet feet to breath was both a blessing and a curse.
Saturday, June 11, 2016
High Stake Meal
Sunday, October 05, 2014
AAJI
Friday, October 09, 2009
Buy My Book
This was part of our assignment in the class.
We had to come up with adverstisement of an imaginary book that we wrote , and speak for 2 mins.
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Have you heard something like this from your friends?
“Hey you know what, I got a super deal from Wal-Mart, the chair you bought for 70 $, I got it for 7$”.
U smile and say, How nice, but on inside u r thinking “what the hell”.
Well not anymore, I bet u don’t have to worry about these situations anymore.
After you read my book “The essentials of super market”.
I am Aniket, and once like you victim of super markets, always getting bad deals , mocked by my friends and buying stuff that I never used , just because , it was on Sale.
Then one day I said to myself Enough!!! .
I got down to uncovering truths about these supermarkets. I did odd jobs; like salesman, watchman, even janitors in these stores to understand there working.
I went through their catalogs, from point of their inception, to really understand their pricing model. I scanned newspaper to chart their sale seasons.
In short I collected a huge amount of data , then by using latest forecasting tools ,developed by professors at Harvard Business school , I came up with theories that’s gives definitive answers.
Like ; When is the best time to buy an Item and from which store. Which items should be avoided at all costs.
In short how to become a smart and assured shopper.
For example, I wouldn’t recommend buying shoes until fall.
These tricks of trade have worked with my friends; they have helped me validate my theories and in process saved quite a bit of money.
I can give their numbers so that you could talk to them.
What are you waiting for? Shop smart, save large. Essentials of super market is there to help you.
Sunday, July 05, 2009
Home Coming to The Whitehouse
I was at peace. I could'nt help but think , its good to be at Home.
Friday, June 26, 2009
GoodBye and Thanks for All the Bench
This Mail Pretty Much summerizes my feelings on closing of one of the most memorable Chapters of My life .
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Hi All,
It has been 864 days that makes it 3110400 moments of being an Infoscion.
These moments were like a roller coaster ride of emotions and experiences.
Starting with intense wonder (Mysore Experience), total joy of completion of training,
I believe in no other organization could have come close to providing these many avenues to experience life, along with many opportunities to lose weight and stay fit (GYM , swimming pool and steam bath were charming too :) ).
Today on the last day of my first innings in Infy, I feel getting sucked in the a vortex of simmering memories.The affect is drowsing and dazzling both at the same time.
It would be wrong on my part to say that I became top notch IT professional, gained hoard of technical stuff, in these two years.
In fact that would be a bare faced lie.
All I can say that I transformed from a small city simpleton to…..well still a simpleton who knows to wriggle out of corporate mess.
I thank each one of you from bottom of my heart. You have helped me achieving this transformation in one way or the other, and making this ride memorable.
My biggest sense of achievement would be if I touched your heart in some way or the other. I always have strived to make people smile around me, expect my Managers and TL’s, who generally end up crying :).
In that process if my PJ’s and stupid comments irritated you, please acknowledge that it was done with best of intentions.
I am off to pursue higher education, partly due to the fact I have been instructed by my family to gain masters before losing bachelors.
But I strongly urge you all to keep in touch, my personal email id is aniketbhatt3@gmail.com, also I have my presence in e world through Orkut and Facebook.
Who knows I might come back to take over approval process of your DART's and leaves :).
Warm Regards
Aniket Bhatt.
Monday, May 25, 2009
TM_Project 5_LOVE_ALL
For a single man like me the above quote is only ray of light in a dark tunnel.
LOVE All, my static score since the time I felt the need to increase it.
Every time, when I tried, I was the only player remaining on the court while other player, some unique and beautiful specimen of fairer sex left, before the match could even begin.
Today, I am sharing such three such "miss"-matches with all of u.
I played my first match in the posh premises of Infy Mysore during my training days.She was ultra stylish and whenever she entered the classroom she managed to turn heads. Her eyes were chocolaty brown; whenever her eyes meet mine I felt sweetness and warmth flow out of them, which drowned me in sea of happiness. Our chats on messenger were becoming personal gradually.
My hopes which were on rise everyday were dashed ruthlessly one fine day.
It was late in the evening; I was working on my assignment after my daily dose of ECC which included Gym, swimming and steam. I was looking fresh and full of energy with my hair neatly parted, as usual.
She entered, her chocolaty eyes met my eyes, and we smiled. She started to make her way towards me. After reaching near to me she said.
"You are looking like a cute kid, today I feel like running my hand through your hair".
I was speechless, my reaction was :O
After waiting for my nonexistent remark for few seconds she left. I was fuming, but I don’t know whether I was angry at her for calling me a kid, or not doing what she said she would do.
Anyways she thought I looked like a kid! I was doomed!
The venue of my next match was a little noisy and err… a bit shaky as well - Karnataka Express from Bangalore to DelhiShe came like a wind and sat opposite to me. The first thing that struck me was she wasn’t carrying any luggage, something that I quickly forgot looking at her more closely.
She seemed perfect epitome of damsel in distress. Her eyes were swollen and were red like cherries. She was staring constantly outside the window with a poker face. Her hair were dancing to the rhythm of breeze which was gushing in; she made no efforts to tame them.I was pretending to read a novel. But all the time I was trying to glance at her through edges of my book.
After reading 2 whole paragraphs in some 2 hours, I finally gathered courage.
"Hi I am Aniket"
She looked me as if she was seeing me for the first time. It took her sometime to respond. And once she did, the next 20 hours seem to melt away, we talked talked and talked.
From college exploits to bollywood scandals, from weather to election results.
I was on seventh heaven, was this love at first sight?
All too soon, her destination came. I innocently asked for her number and contact details. To that she replied she was running away from her home, to get married to her love something which was opposed by her parents, hence she had no number that she could give and she left.
My most recent match took place during my last project in Bangalore.
She was the star attraction of our team. The whole team really took care of her, whenever she was faced with some error or ABEND in her code, the whole team gathered around her and removed those with great dexterity.
The days she wore white, wow, she looked like a lilly on a cold misty morning, with dew settled on its petal like pearls. Such delicate arrangement by nature, that one is afraid to even touch it.To carve a niche in her life was difficult, but somehow I succeeded, from few mails exchanged in a day , to sustained conversation on communicator , we made steady progress. But the only medium that seem to enter a girls heart now a days is the electromagnetic radiations that are emitted by this device.
And unfortunately I can’t handle this device at a stretch for more than 15 minutes. One fine day she was in a good mood and wanted to talk forever. But soon we reached a point where we both were saying the same thing
"And, now you tell me"
"No you tell me"
"Noooo , you only tell me"
I was thinking ‘say something’, ‘say something funny’, ’no say something smart and funny’.
I ended up telling her about Obama’s economic policies and how they are going to affect Indian IT industry.
Which I admit was neither smart nor funny.
The calls stopped immediately, the pings died gradually and mails became extinct in few weeks.
From these and many other such incidents, I have learnt that it’s wise to play the waiting game. It makes sense to wait for someone who likes the way you are, doesn’t mind things like, you looking young or your inability to talk smooth on phone.
In other words look for a player who appreciates your natural game.
Till then let it be LOVE ALL.
Over to you Mr Toastmaster.
TM_Project 4_PM_2_AM
Madame Toastmaster, fellow Toastmasters and guests.
I was shocked to see someone else cozily cuddled in my seat like a baby. I kept my luggage aside, gently shook the sleeping gentleman out of his slumber and said confidently "Sir this is my seat".
Reluctantly and irritated he got up. He removed his ticket from the wallet, and claimed that seat was indeed his. Discussion followed, people woke from their deep sleep and started gathering, like flies gather around a cake. Finally the TT came, took both tickets in his custody and like a priest solemnly pronounced my ticket is a day old. I felt the floor of AC compartment of the railway coach slip beneath me.
The anomaly of the Gregorian calendar manifested itself with dire consequences on that fateful day. The arrival time of that cursed train was 11.50 pm and departure time was 12.10 am. So effectively day changed. And I was stuck with a day old ticket.
Thankfully when it comes to wishing pretty girls on their birthday I don’t make such mistakes.
But Alas! There I was, holding a day old ticket pleading the TT to reconsider repeatedly pointing to my wallet.
The TT was unmoved, like the rock of Gibraltar and refused blatantly to take the bait of green notes.
I kept prodding; taking pity on me he suggested a loop hole in the system. He said that the only person that could help me was the station commerce officer, who sits on platform no 1.
A ray of hope.
The train was parked on platform no 6. To reach platform 1 I had to climb an over bridge, tear across maze of human traffic and descend down. I ran like a horse and reached the cabin of the officer. I was panting profusely; cold beads of moisture which had accumulated on my forehead were trickling down on my face.
The cabin had a typical government office look. The officer was surrounded by hoard of sycophants; his desk was cluttered with files and paper. My dramatic entry caught everyone's attention. I started rambling and complaining, I tried to put the blame on railways for issuing me ticket for onward journey when it wasn’t possible for me to catch the second train.
This line of attack backfired bluntly on my face. The officer scolded me and told me to board next train. The next train was at 5'o'Clock in the morning.
Crestfallen, I gathered my luggage along with my shattered spirits.
My next stop was the railway reservation counter which was outside the main station, in an adjacent building. I was shown the door once again! The man sitting at the counter said that the next train has only unreserved coaches, whose tickets are issued only 2 hour before the departure. An unreserved coach at this time of the year!! It was start of the Holi vacations.
I entered the station again to make my way to the retirement room.
Lo Behold! That train was still there. It was way past its departure time. Maybe it was God's will that I board this train. Adrenaline stared oozing through my system.
I don’t know what made me go back to the commerce officer's cabin again!
This time the atmosphere had changed drastically.
The room was dim. The sycophants had left. The officer laid indisposed, flat on his stomach on a makeshift bed. An old lady was massaging his back.
Stunned by this sight I mustered courage once again. This time I was diplomatic, and used sentences infused with ‘please’ and 'sorry'.
He seemed taken aback; he too was shocked to know that train hadn’t left the station yet.
After a long pregnant silence, he asked me curtly "Do you have 100 Rs".
Those words were like honey to my ears.
"Yes Sir I have", I said with assuredly.
He pulled out his stamp, scribbled something of my ticket, and viola I had a valid ticket now!
And it was time to run again. I noticed to my great horror that object of my affection started to move. I started galloping, cutting across the crowd like a hot knife through butter, I reached platform 6. The train had gathered quite a bit of momentum by now. My mind went blank, what to do! What to do!
I saw a friendly person at the door of a sleeper compartment willing to help me.
The last scene from DDLJ flashed in my head. But Kajol wasn’t carrying a heavy handbag, a laptop bag, a back-bag. And wondered if that person was as strong as Sharukh khan!Throwing caution to winds, I decided to take chance, somehow came abreast with that open door. Threw my bag at his outstretched hands and literally dived into the coach.
Totally out of breath and exhausted, I slumped to the floor of the coach after, my greatest misadventure with railways.
Apart from losing weight from all the running around , I gained some valuable lessons from this fiasco.
First: double check the date and time while booking tickets.
Second: travel light; you never know when you have to run around with weight u r carrying.
And the most important, never lose hope, things can change dramatically in your favor at 11th hour.
So wish you all of you a happy and safe journey and with valid tickets.
Over to you Mam Toastmaster …
TM_Project 3_GoldMines
Mr. Toastmaster, fellow toastmaster and dear guests.
In my opinion one doesn't have to be scholar and read thousands of books to be knowledgeable. The whole world can be your teacher, only if you behave like attentive students you stand to learn a world from them. Also to be knowledgeable is not merely to know facts and figures; one has to learn to behave wisely also.
Could there be a better place to start learning than from one’s home.
I have learnt a lot from my family.
It’s said that mother is the first teacher, which is obvious, but in my case I am still learning from my mother. My mother in her 40’s, comfortably employed in government sector; choose to do her PhD at an age where most of women are worried about latest affairs and re-carnations in their favorite family soaps. This taught me that there is no stopping to the learning curve, there is always scope to do something extra if one is willing.
My father taught me humbleness; he has helped friends and far flung relatives, who don’t even call up in their good times, when they really wanted it most. According to him when we help others we merely act as agents to facilitate God’s will. Therefore it’s inappropriate to take credit or expect something in return when we help others.
I learnt to be self dependent from my grandfather. He has a separate household and an active practice in Mumbai High court in-spite of being in his 80’s and after one bypass surgery. He has steadfastly refused pleas from my uncles to quit working and enjoy retirement that he deserves.
I am sure that we all revere our elders in our family, but what about our friends. Agreed that they are our peers, which may lead our ego to block out their qualities, that can help us grow.
I consider myself lucky to have stayed four years in a hostel , along with an eclectic group of students , each were informed in some respect or the other ,which provided me ample learning opportunities.
I was part of many unique circles of friends who contributed to my progress in different ways.
A Extremely Studious group: They made me aware of the many opportunities which benefitted me, and also set example of sincerity and dedication to academics, which sadly I didn’t inculcate.
Computer Geek group : I got to know about graphic cards , games , RAM , processors and what not from them.
Rock Group: Initially I was ridiculed immensely for having almost no knowledge of English music industry, but quickly enough I grasped knowledge about Rock, R&B and hip hop. It’s often said music help break down the barriers; additionally it can help impress girls if you happen to know the perfect romantic songs which are new to them.
"Listen to this song! You will love it ". Believe me this line works always, if you have "THE" song lined up.
English movies lovers Group: I can claim to have seen some of the most celebrated cinematic masterpieces which I would have missed if not for them.
An annoyingly "know it all" group: They made me feel ashamed of my GK, and enforced on me habit of browsing newspaper on a regular basis.
All in all a truly humbling experience, I learnt so much from each one of them, I can’t thank them enough.
Family and friends done but what about strangers that you happen to meet? They are not to be treated lightly either. Sometimes you happen to meet interesting specimen of human species, who are only too eager to talk talk and talk, especially while travelling. They have tendency to pour out all their knowledge on absolutely anyone who is willing to hear. I failed to see their importance initially, but I have realized listening to their incessant chatter might help you.
It can be an over eager aunty relating her shopping experiences, one could know places to avoid beforehand, or know the places where one can avail cheap bargains.
Or a knowledgeable Uncle commenting on country’s present political scenario, which can save weeks of editorial reading.
One doesn’t have to necessarily need to participate in these discussions, merely active listening will do.
Once on our way to Goa, an overly helpful uncle, who we befriended on the train, made our entire itinerary in matter of minutes , he saw us struggle with an open map , not sure what to do and where to go. He came forward on his own, and helped us plan an efficient trip, which turned out to be one of the best ever! Sometimes one doesn’t need to ask also!
We all are software engineers here and know the value of reusability, if someone has made a module of knowledge , its common sense to borrow that module and install it in ourselves, rather than code it from scratch.
If we have a templates of behaviors that has been successful we don’t have to design them.
I urge you all to treat every person that you meet a potential goldmine of wisdom and decide wisely what you extract from him/her.
Over to you Mr Toastmaster.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Project 2_ITMC_Cheap Thrills
We proudly call ourselves the “CHEAP THRILLS”.
We believe in age old adage. .that “the point of journey is not reaching the destination but the journey itself “
Additionally we also believe that the journeys which are marked by confusion, on spot decisions, total desperation and serendipity are more interesting and worth remembering.
We have three Commandments to guide us in all the trips that we undertake.
Let me explain, enumerating them with the incidents that took place when we went to MM Hills.
A place that was made famous by the sandalwood bandit Veerapan and his fearsome moustache.
The first commandment.
Thou shall plan everything, except for unnecessary details like what, where, how and how many.
So one fine weekend we decide to go to MM Hills. We had a vague idea that we would get bus from Majestic (Bangalore Main Bus Stand). But its frequency, the timing of last bus and the time taken to travel etc, were mysteries that we planned to solve on spot.
We were uncertain to the very last moment how many of us were actually going to come, it was no wonder; some of us stared helplessly at the last bus as it pulled out of the stand, while others were stuck in traffic.
We frantically considered our options, should we go somewhere else? Should we stay put in Bangalore?
Deciding to stick with the plan we went to Mysore, from there we were bound to find something connecting.
We realized how wrong were we only after reaching Mysore, where we had to hire a cab at around 3 am, since stranded at the bus stand is not exactly our idea of thrills.
The Second Commandment
Thou shall seek thrills the cheapest way.
The funny thing about money is … It’s never enough…
So we try our best not to spend too much of it during our travels.
We broke our commandment by hiring a cab. But we tried to compensate, by making full use of the DVD player in the cab. We saw a movie in Malayalam, a language which we are not familiar with, through the night, a cheap thrill wasn’t it.
Normally, we travel by cheapest available buses and the lowest class of trains. This way we get to know the real culture of that place without our wallet losing much weight.
To understand the culture of the place, it’s essential to haggle for seats with the general public, it’s absolutely immaterial that one does this with people whose languages one doesn’t understand. The gestures are self explanatory.
The third commandment
Thou shall crack PJs constantly, silence is strictly prohibited.
One way of seeking thrills is to keep coming up with outrageous PJs (Poor Jokes), no matter what the situation is. And the funny thing about PJ’s is the worst they are the better they sound.
We keep pulling each other’s legs, coming up with wacky one-liners and parodies.
We even came up with anthem for our group, during our return journey on the bus, which went something like this
“Life is exciting we are cheap thrills
Confusion, indecision we are cheap thrills”
We created so much racket in the bus, it resulted in harsh altercation with our co passengers, who took us for drunken lunatics.
So that was crux of our philosophy without going into the details of what we did at our actual destination.
We basically compromise our comforts and risk our lives in our quest to achieve thrills without spending too much money on it.
But let’s talk about a journey in which we try our best, not to reach the destination. Life; and we all know what final destination is, we have seen the movie haven’t we?
In my opinion these three commandments are applicable here also, only our understanding needs to be changed.
Life is not a 6 sigma project; don’t plan everything meticulously in life. You never know when something or maybe someone comes up and disrupts your plans. Follow the first commandment.
Coming to the second, being cheap is not related to money in this journey. The important thing is not to search for your happiness in materialistic things around you. The best things in life are free; seek thrill in those, like; enjoy the nature, get wet in rains till your soul get drenched.
Follow the third commandment with extreme care, not everyone can tolerate PJ’s.
But try to make people smile especially when they are feeling blue or when they are tensed, this can be your good deed for the day.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Project 1__ITMC__In search of true Niketan
I won the best prepared speech speaker of the day , in my very first speech :)
ITMC is acronym for Infosys Toastmasters Club , a forum that encourages public speaking
Is it too late? Has the situation become hopeless?
We must find out.
As I cautiously embark on my public speaking journey before you.
Mr. Toastmaster, fellow toastmasters and welcome guests.
A very good evening to all.
My name finds its root in the hindi word Niketan which means Home.
If u put a 'A' before it, it becomes "Homeless"…
Homeless .. not Hopeless
Its One of the names of Lord Krishna. Signifying his omnipresence, all the world to him is his home, rendering him essentially,a homeless…
But, for me the literal meaning suits better.
I am a Maharastrian , brought up In UP at 12 different cities and attended 9 different schools; and from last 6 years in Karnataka .
Where is My HOME !!!
My nomadic lifestyle is attributed to my parent's dynamic job requirements. My dad is retired High court judge and mom is District Judge. The tryst of my family with the Judicial services doesn't end here, my grandparents, uncle, cousins and aunts from both paternal and maternal sides are dedicated to the judicial cause.
In short I come from a family filled with lawyers and judges.
I know what you are thinking. What the hell am I doing here!
Dont "judge" me the answer to this all pertinent question has eluded me so far.
In fact my carrier aspiration has fluctuated like a pendulum and changed sides like our political parties.
Every semester I would be fascinated by a different subject and saw my future in it.
Robotics, Aerospace, Management, Thermodynamics .to name a few
My mom got so fed up of my ephemeral ambitions. She responded to each with same reply “I hope u come up with something better next year". My father, who epitomizes stolid personality, on other hand would never loose patience with me.
I am still to figure out the next course of action after joining Infosys.
Like the architect said to Neo in the movie Matrix "You already have made the choices, now you must understand them".. My understanding phase is going on...
By now you might have guessed that, I am a dilettante of the first order. I have many superficial interests that wax and vane with time.
But some interests that stood the test of time are reading and travelling.
My Reading had its humble beginning in kiddy stuff like Hardy boys and Famous five
Which gradually transcended into serious literature like Dickens and
Asimov. Not too serious though. I confined myself to fiction only.
Also the kid in me made me read each Harry Potter book at least 5 times …
Travelling … I was bestowed with parents who themselves are super fond of travelling. They would take me and my brother along with them in their many journeys.
So I tagged along with them initially out of compulsion and latter with bubbling enthusiasm to almost every nook and corner of this great country.
My favorite places have always been the beaches. Sitting on serene beaches I realized that solitude is the best company a man can ever have .
Still the thirst for travelling is not quenched. It’s my dear wish to travel whole India in one stretch like Sharukh Khan of Swadesh.
Now the gloomy aspect of my life; the absence of fairer sex.
For 22 years my tongue seized functioning in front of girls.
Their mere presence made my throat dry, palm sweaty and vision hazy, much like public speaking.
This problem miraculously got rectified during training days at Infosys.
Only to replaced by another of much bigger size.
The few single girls that are left today, think I look like an innocent kid, and hence can’t be considered seriously.
What !!!!
Even if I do, what's wrong with that?
Have rowdy looking men become knights in shinning amour for 21st century dames?
I hope not..
Finally I have a confession to make.
All my life I have been like a sponge stuck at bottom of the sea. Letting the fishes of opportunity pass me by while I filtered out only the essential for survival.
I am looking for a path to redemption.
Lately I have sprouted tiny tentacles. But that is not enough. I wish ITMC help me evolve strong flippers that would help me to leave murky depths of ordinary and rise to dazzling surface of the extra ordinary.
And in the process discover my true Home , my Niketan; my destiny.
Back to you Mr. Toastmaster.
Friday, June 27, 2008
Missing Mysore
It’s been almost a year now, but the memories are still fresh. Memories of good times are like wine, they better with time, they become more intoxicating and powerful, enough to make us travel back in time to those hey days. The details may get blurred but we tend to recall exact emotions that we felt then.
Such were the days of my training at Infosys Technologies, held in Mysore.
I was at perigee of my confidence ,( due to terrible times at my previous job) , I had no idea what to expect , having heard claims of my friends that they were harassed and thoroughly exploited during their training, I was very skeptical of my chances. Only one thing drove me, that it can’t be as bad as my previous stint.
The entry was dramatic and it kind of blew my breath away, being whisked away in a golf cart all I could think was WOWWW.
Enormous campus, shining glass façade buildings and spick and span boulevards that seemed to stretch for miles in every direction. The thing that really struck out was enormous glass golf ball building which I latter came to know was the multiplex.
I was put up at hostel room which was comparable to a 4 star hotel’s room. I perpetually had Colgate smile on my face for first few days, I couldn’t believe my luck , few days back I was toiling in miasma of shop floor , now I was in midst of surfeit luxury.
Eventually the training began, it was preceded by string of ILI (Infosys Leadership Institute) sessions, these sessions were fun and served as ice breaker among group of strangers who were to become training mates. We were made to do silly tasks to improve team spirit among us. I thoroughly enjoyed these.
The technical training which had halo of being extra tough started on daunting note. Modules, assignments, module tests, compre were the four words that were most talked about.
Eventually late night patrolling of GEC became an innate trait of everyone. Since we had GEC (Global education Center) at our disposal 24 hrs we began to procrastinate work, leaving more and more work to be done after midnight.
I was amazed at the facility, with which I understood the concepts of training and the fact I didn’t struggle as much I thought I would.
So I shifted my attention to ECC (Employee Care Center) and I would not be overstating when I say I over exploited the facilities there. When I had state of art GYM , swimming pool , steam bath , squash courts , tennis courts etc etc at my doorstep , I didn’t see any reason to hold myself back ,not even stern warning from my physiotherapist ,who would have killed me if he knew what all I was doing then; and I unleashed my self on these.
During the training another major foible, in myself was addressed automatically, the inability to accost girls. I thought with four years in Mechanical engineering and six months on shop floor, I would have to use sign language to communicate with the fairer sex. But I was lucky enough to meet some very understanding girls with whom I did manage to communicate in normal colloquial languages, and made friendships that I hope will last for lifetime.
As it is quite obvious that no matter how luxurious your surrounding’s are you will be happy only if you get good company. I did get that and time spend with my friends during training , was truly memorable , be it be during group studies cramming our head with last minute knowledge , or during project work , or while playing or partying (DJ nights were instant hits) , every moment was enjoyable and worthy to be cherished.
Some of the best memories that keep brimming in my memory are:
1. Coming back late in the night around 4 am listening to “I walk alone” on my cell, it gave me Goosebumps all over my body.
2. Discussing ghost stories with my friends till late in night.
3. Having fruitless philosophical discussions with Bhavna, in which I was comprehensively beaten.
4. Coming to room late in night struggling to find way through myriads of sprinklers, which had the knack of going on when I was coming back.
5. Fights with Arpita over silliest of reasons.
6. Seeing back to back movies in Multiplex.
7. Breaking our heads just days before compre.
8. Cycling around the campus late in the night.
9. Lying in the swimming pool late in the evening and bask in the view of fully lit GEC.
10. Trying to understand musical concepts from Sughosh and teach him Mainframes, believe me both were next to impossible tasks.
11. Lolling around in front of Loyal World (Super Market inside the campus).
12. Occasional jaunts to Ambrish Dabha, on weekends.
But every good thing has to end, so did the training, the glare of Mysore DC blinded me so much that I choose Mysore as my first option, although I got Bangalore. Same golf cart carried me and my luggage out, but this time my heart carried more luggage than my bags.
Most of my good friends went to other DC’s.
The abrupt end left a void that I am still struggling to fill. And on the anniversary of what I called a sudden death, I crave for those days when we earned while we learned and led mostly carefree lives only compre and module tests playing the spoilsport.
There are new demons now namely traffic, production issues and compensation reviews, to make our lives interesting. Life would be surely dull without any challenges!!!
Friday, April 25, 2008
The Human Junction
Filthy , dirty , stinking and overcrowded ; images that occur to us when somebody mentions about the Indian Railway Stations.
But in my opinion, a lot can be learnt from them if we just be receptive enough to look for them. The Railway Platform is like a huge canvass where one can find all the hues of human emotions mingling with each other and forming a brilliant masterpiece, which is a miniature representation of our society itself!
I got to observe this masterpiece during my break journey to home this time around. I had two hours to pass on Itarsi station, before I could board the connecting train to Allahabad.
Refused to be bound by the ennui of the first class waiting room, I ventured out for a midnight stroll on the platform.
The images offered by the railway station were as usual - vivid and diverse!. One could observe myriads of human emotions and behaviors, all brimming in a small place.
Few that I could discern were. -
The expression of happiness lit up the faces of dear ones, who met after a long duration; the trains play an important part in reuniting family & friends!
The confused look borne by the passengers, whose tickets were not confirmed! They kept running helter-skelter & waited for the earliest opportunity to flank the TT & bombard him with their anxieties, contrary to the stoic stance taken by the TT, who resembled a boxing match referee, while standing in the middle of the pandemonium, which was created by disgruntled waiting list passengers
The tired hungry faces of the porters, as they looked onto the approaching trains with expectations of passengers bringing tons of luggage for them to carry!
The constant babble from the platform vendors creates a ubiquitous background in every corner of the station.
The echoes of “Chai!! Chai!!”.. is invariably the strongest association of station in our memories. Their frantic attempts to allure prospective customers are an indicative to their desperation.
The endurance of Indian passengers as they wait for their trains to arrive is world renowned, they bring all the essential items with them and make themselves at home while their trains keep getting delayed.
The look of intense disappointment in the eyes of a father, caught my eye, while he was trying to pat his son to sleep, who was lying on the platform. His heart must have pained to see his son sleep in such an ungainly predicament, but he was helpless.
Then there are homeless people whom the railway station tends to soak in its vast enormity, they are present at every nook and corner of the station where it is even remotely feasible to lie down. They are always found sleeping in their dirty rags, their sleep which is oblivious to the confusion all around them, seems peaceful.
The sad demeanor of the poor trash pickers is heart rendering, their condition seems abject as they scavenge around for treasure in heaps of trash all around. Their empty and hollow eyes gleam only at the sight of uncrushed plastic bottles, which they carefully stow away in their sacks.
The nonchalant countenances of some brave souls are also noteworthy! These fellows like to get down at every stop for a drink or to eat or just to stretch their legs, and they always prefer to give the train a start before boarding it, stretching their sojourn on the platform to the very last minute, as if boarding a static train is a lowly act, which is to be avoided at all cost. (Unfortunately I also belong to this species of foolhardy ruffians).
If I had an opportunity to observe myself on that day, I would have seen a bemused passenger who realized at the very last moment, that his confirmed railway ticket is a day old, and is running around from one officer to the other with the hope of finding a loophole in the rules, that don’t allow traveling by a day old ticket, and somehow bribe his way through.!
Tuesday, April 08, 2008
Endless Quest
O slave of Neptune, kings of seas
Mighty ocean, what secrets you hold inside thee!!
Many fathoms of water you hold,
Nobody could ever fathom it no matter how much old.
What you think and want is difficult to descry,
As you can do anything but cry.
There is no way to tell the tears that you shed,
From the waters which you tread .
Your emotions are shown ,
By the constant ravaging of the waters you own.
For the love which you seek ,
Is far away in skies beyond your reach.
Moon, the gleaming white orb ,
Is your beloved heartthrob .
Every time it comes near ,
You cry out loud for every one to hear!!
The futility of your efforts is evident ,
None the less you are not diffident .
You don’t loose hope ,
As forgetting love is beyond your scope.
There is a lesson from the ocean to be learn,
If it’s the love that you want to earn !!
You have to keep on trying ,
Till you melt the heart of your darling.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Love Quotient
This valentine treat your skin so that it glows….
Feel the Love in the air…..
What are your plans for this valentine?? ……..
Statements like these were booming on the air waves on every radio channel, while I was browsing through them traveling on bus to work yesterday.People surely know to cash in the madness associated with the valentine day.For a person, trickling through the quasi static traffic of Bangalore is a punishment bad enough, and for a single man listening to this sort of gibberish while doing that, is nothing short of torture.I turned off the radio for good, and played Hanuman Chalisa on my cell phone, I thought, its better to indulge in some devotion rather to get more irritated. And who is better than Lord Hanuman (bachelor for life) to distract ones mind from love-shove rubbish.
Sadly this Love Bug came chasing me later in the day. When I have to attend a meeting whose theme was Love Quotient. I couldn’t escape reality this time; I had to ruminate on the sorry state of affairs in my life.
So what exactly is this Love Quotient?? I guess it is like IQ, while IQ is a reflection of ones intelligence, LQ is the reflection of ones ability to understand love and the complications associated with it. Unfortunately there is no standardized test for quantifying this.
Where do I stand as far as LQ is concerned? I pondered …
Well my understanding of Love is pretty abysmal. I never understood the Paradox associated with Love & Friendship.
As far as general norm goes you can't fall in Love unless you are friends with the opposite sex, and there is another conflicting norm that state if you are good friends then you qualify for "Friends For Ever” category where it is deemed inappropriate to garner such thoughts. So, one will have to go through the whole process again with different person, with apparently the same results next time.
For me Love without friendship is like building without foundation. Is my understanding correct? I don't know…
Are there two ways of befriending girls, type one where there is a possibility of the relationship going to the next level and type two where such thoughts are not entertained?? I don't know …The very thought of becoming friends with a girl with an intent for something more (hidden agenda) revolts me, falling in love should be a natural process. Is it really??
In my opinion, one has to know the other person thoroughly, in order to be serious about him/her, and that can be achieved only by becoming good friends. Again this is just a theory, never tested by me ... so not sure about this also.
Is there an optimum point in friendship where it’s appropriate to move it a notch up, or on the similar lines is there a point of no return, where it becomes impossible?
Well I think I won't know the answers until I experience this Love thing on my own. Or could any of you educated guys/gals could give me pointers to my qualms and clear my elementary concepts at least.
Till then I humbly admit that I seriously lack LQ.
Coming Back To Life...
Why did I just let this forum slip away is a mystery to me also, I guess there was no room for creativity left in those roller coaster months of mine.
I have come back with an intend to stay put this time with firmer resolve to update the blog on regular basis and perhaps with more amount of understanding, greater skill sets as far as knowledge of words goes ( took my GRE recently) and more experiences to share.
Wish me luck!
Sunday, May 14, 2006
Forgotten Mother
But at the same time I would say that we all have forgotten about our universal mother that is Mother Nature. There is no way can give Her cards and presents to make mens for our disrespect which we have shown to Her.
We have plundered and abused Her and she has been patient with us...till now ... I wonder for how long before She looses her temper decides to give us all beating…
Wednesday, April 26, 2006
Kingdom of Heaven
This is a dialogue from movie Kingdom of Heaven, just watched it yesterday. Amazing movie, it is about Ballion ,a Knight, who saves Jerusalem from attack of Muslims.
Jerusalem is called Kingdom of Heaven which is the setting for fierce war between Christians and Muslims.
The movie made me think about the “heaven", its past, present and future, and how this land has being place for constant bloodshed and politics.
What is so special about this piece of land which makes men fight battles and kill each other. Sure it is a holy place for three religions, thereby place of dispute, but would the Gods of the respective religion would approve of the bloodshed which is going on in their name.
In one of my previous posts I said that religion serves as a sink where people could pour their anxieties and complains and derive strength from it. What I missed was religion also give men faith and belief.
Faith is a strong thing to possess it can make men stronger and in extreme cases foolish and wild.
It was the faith that made part of Jerusalem’s army believe that God’s army could not be defeated ,and that made them ride out to certain death.
Close to home it was faith that made people do what they did in Ayodhya . It is faith that makes lacs of pilgrims to take dangerous roads to visit temples and other places of worship. They have the faith that God will take care of them if they do the required rituals.
How can anybody rationally justify these acts??
There is no answer for that; it is now part of our life.
People since early ages are easily motivated in the name of religion, politicians and war mongers have time and again exploited this weakness and misled them , resulting in great tragedies . Can there be any end to this??
Friday, April 14, 2006
Indi-Mentals
We hear people around us complaining about one thing or other always. For example in recent past reservation and Shewag and Kaif playing form are the hot complains.
Bangalore's traffic, weather, pollution and other long list of complains we can hear from one mouth or the other.
This has been problem with us Indians that we tend to use our tongues more than our limbs. Rarely you will find so many people having opinion about almost everything. We complain about politicians and we don’t go to vote. We complain about traffic but do we care enough to use public transport. We complain about the filth on the street but do we care enough not to throw plastic bags on to the street ourselves.
Another aspect of us is that we are inherently lazy. The best example of this is that we gained independence by not doing work for the Britisher’s.(I mean no disrespect for Non Cooperation Movement and Gandhiji).
There was the anecdote where there was a boulder lying on street and many people walking on the street tumble over it. They all complain about it out loud and swore at it, and move on, but nobody has enough common sense that they remove it themselves and get rid of it. That’s us Lazy Indians.
If we are not directly affected we tend to neglect the suffering of others. If it is somebody else’s problem why the hell one should get involved. But if we are in the same fix we expect other people to help us.
We don’t care for the landmarks we have. I have personally seen people scribbling on places like Agra fort where people from different countries come to see the architecture. Another time in Dalhousie Shimla (Switzerland of India) i have seen foreign tourists pocketing their trash
(wrapper and plastic bottles) while Indian tourists just casually throwing their trash on the grasslands. I can tell you it was a pathetic sight.
Another sad aspect of our society the way women are treated in our society. In a country where we worship Durga as the female form of the supreme power we had, and in some places we still have, practices like female infanticide, dowry and sati. This to me seems the crux of hypocorism.
We never seem to prepare for the future .We always react to a situation ,instead of planning for it,. Like now the situation of Bangalore is out of control then we are thinking about having metro instead of planning it before.(in places like London they have the Tube since a century now).
Writting all these things makes me sad. I sincerely hope that our country comes out these mentalities and sees the bigger picture and work together for a bright future.
Monday, April 10, 2006
Following the footsteps
Doctor ka beta doctor ,buisnessman ka beta buisnessan,this are the cliched comments of yester years . Normally in todays world you are free to do anything you want .But what happens when you belong to whole family filled with judges and lawyers and you decide to do engineering.
Well that has happened to me and i can give the first hand expirence of my sufferings which in form of never ending stream of questions are thrusted on me from time to time.
Just because my father is retired high court judge,my mother is Add District judge ,Mathura,my grandfather from maternal side was retired District judge and is lawyer right now in Mumbai high court,grandfather from paternal side was a lawyer,(list is only half finished),uncle from maternal side is district judge of Satara,uncle from paternal side was a lawyer,cousin is a lawyer,aunty from maternal side is a lawyer working in BMC(mumbai) (this list comprises of my immidiate relatives only), I am expected to study law and keep up the family tradition.
Well I already made the mistake and i ,unfortunately going to stick to it. Whenever i am introduced to anyone and he knows my family background the first question is that "beta law kyon nahi pad rahe ho"...
I am prepared with only one answer "interest nahi tha.."
Well not all the people are satisfied with the answer and they go on saying that how can you dont like the profession in which you are brought up.. i really dont have the answer to this question.. i try to avoid answering it by sheepish grin and shrug of shoulder and try to escape.
Even in my all job interviews i am asked the same question.and i tell them about my parents only.i think the trend is going to be continued....
Well i think being reared into a specific kind of enviorment like mine can have two kinds of effect..
Firstly one can absolutely fell in love with the profession and stick to it.
Secondly,which happen to me , you get so bored of it , you dont want to listen any word about it.
The constant dinner table conversations and discussion between mother and father took toll on me and was forced me to look for alternative carrier.
My parents needless to say fully supported me and let me bail out form the law house.I will be the first engineer in my family. It is not that i despise the law profession , i am proud of my parents achivements . It is just i did not see myself doing what they did.
Sometime it is tempting to think what would happen if i had stuck to law ,i would be living in my home ,aram se,and would be under the giudence of greatest mentors. I am happy so say that my brother is carring the family torch and will enjoy these benifits .....
Then i think it is better this way for me to start from scratch and learn to live diffrently.
Thursday, April 06, 2006
A debate to remember
It was very interesting and informative..
Many examples were quoted for and against the topic...
For the support of females the examples give were
- Helen launched thousand ships
- A specific kind of lady bug who after laying eggs eats its male counterpart
- The girls getting special treatment in schools and coachings show that they have the power
- Lioness are the one who provide food to male lion
- Hitler was driven By his mother's infidelity with a Jew to start World war 2
- Cleopatra single handedly threatened the Rome empire.
The points against the topic were
- Females are too emotional
- They are not fit for stressful job
- They need some one for their protection always
- Physically they are not as apt as males.
After the debate I pondered over the topic and I realized the debate though very informative and interesting was pointless.
Their is absolutely no way to compare a male and female of any species on mental or physical grounds.
According to me the female sex of any species is GREATER than its male counterpart..
It is the role they play in the society where they give rise to life and nourish it makes them far more important and greater than males...
It is the way we are trained in our lives that results in the individual that we are... A girl can be physically stronger than man if she is trained well enough... She could be also trained handle stressful jobs, taking care of her children and husband is stressful enough. They are also capable of taking care care of their families and earning bread for their loved ones.
As far as world war and troy is concerned they where result of male ego and driven by political reasons nothing to do with female sex being stronger and all.
Undoubtedly female sex has been given greater role to play in the society.. They are in one way or other responsible for behavior of all the males in the society.
Their influence on us as mother is pivotal to our personality. As a wife she is the one that is incharge of her husband's life .Men can go to any length to keep the females in their life impressed and happy.
These makes the role of female sex more greater and responsible in any society.
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Mind your religion
Tuesday, April 04, 2006
TV Times
I am so sad so say that this runs in my family also..me once upon a time ,victim of this diesease.
Especially the "star pariwar" i feel present a disgraceful picture of indian society and the indian women...
Many will say that these serial show women more powerful and dominating so it is good.But between the illicit affairs,the plans of sabotage,the mind games and "ekta kapoor" knows what not ,these good qualities of women becomes second fiddle..
Almost all the serials involves a huge tycoon family with their many millions, they will have equal number of secrets and problems. Big Bungalows as big as stadium ,women in expensive sarees(they are supposed to be at home for Gods sake) with huge amount of makeup plastered onto them , conspiring to bring down a rival family ...
Tell me how many people can identify with such setting ,it is most ridiculos in a country with most of the people stuggling to make both ends meet..
Then after the prime time is over the endless discussions about with whom the female protoganist will go and what is going to happen next ....is just so hopeless.....
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Life As It Comes
This is about a much discussed topic "How to face adversity".
In my opinion one has to under go many tight spots in their live time sometimes it seems to much too handle. Right now i am suffering from one of these,more about that later.Sometimes you want to cry out loud "why me" or "my luck is really bad for this is happening to me ",almost everybody goes through this phase, moreover sometimes it so happens that one of ur freinds is prime on his luck and u think u are a loser to be in a pathetic situation..
The truth of the matter is adversity is what makes a man strong .. could anyone recall any great person who we know of who had it easy from the begining ,no every body has to struggle to achive something in their life...
It is best to keep our head down and carry on..even if you have done nothing wrong to deserve it... it is similar to travelling in a jam packed train where u can do nothing but to wait for the right station to come...
So take life as it come ,take the sufferins as part of the deal made with life itself ..so that u can enjoy the good moments and cherish them dearly....